Fast Wednesdays: March 8, 2017 – Spiritual Checkup (Continued)


Greetings Beloved!

Happy International Women’s Day – “Here’s to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them.”

I thought I would continue our topic from last week because like any checkup, it does not end with just one stop, we need to have blood work performed and other tests before the doctor’s office calls us and tells us, everything looks okay, and we will see you next year!

Below is a 10-point checklist that asks some diagnostic questions which may be helpful for you. Every winter we hear of people who go out and shovel snow and do not make it back inside as they die or go to the hospital from a heart attack. They are the picture of health but deep within they have some serious fatal condition that’s hiding. Every one of us needs an occasional visit to the doctor for a checkup. The same is true with our spiritual lives. As creatures of habit, we tend to go through life on autopilot. We often miss clues that indicate that our spirit is not enjoying the good health that God created it for. In the same way that the doctor puts us through a battery of tests to diagnose potential physical problems, God has given us a process of evaluating spiritual problems in our lives:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control …” (Galatians 5:22-23).

  1. Love

This word for love doesn’t refer to warm feelings but to a deliberate attitude of good will and devotion to others. Love gives freely without looking at whether the other person deserves it, and it gives without expecting anything back.

Question: Am I motivated to do for others as Christ has done for me, or am I giving in order to receive something in return?

  1. Joy

Unlike happiness, joy is gladness that is completely independent of the good or bad things that happen in the course of the day. In fact, joy denotes a supernatural gladness given by God’s Spirit that actually seems to show up best during hard times. This is a product of fixing your focus on God’s purposes for the events in your life rather than on the circumstances.

Question: Am I experiencing a joy of life on a regular basis, or is my happiness dependent on things going smoothly in my day?

  1. Peace

It’s not the absence of turmoil, but the presence of tranquility even while in a place of chaos. It is a sense of wholeness and completeness that is content knowing that God controls the events of the day.

Question: Do I find myself frazzled by the crashing waves of turmoil in my life, or am I experiencing “the peace that passes all comprehension” (Philippians 4:6-7)?

  1. Patience

Other words that describe this fruit are lenience, long-suffering, forbearance, perseverance, and steadfastness. It is the ability to endure ill treatment from life or at the hands of others without lashing out or paying back.

Question: Am I easily set off when things go wrong or people irritate me, or am I able to keep a godly perspective in the face of life’s irritations? 

  1. Kindness

When kindness is at work in a man’s life, he looks for ways to adapt to meet the needs of others. It is moral goodness that overflows. It’s also the absence of malice.

Question: Is it my goal to serve others with kindness, or am I too focused on my own needs, desires, or problems to let the goodness of God overflow to others?

  1. Goodness

While kindness is the soft side of good, goodness reflects the character of God. Goodness in you desires to see goodness in others and is not beyond confronting or even rebuking (as Jesus did with the money changers in the temple) for that to happen.

Question: Does my life reflect the holiness of God, and do I desire to see others experience God at a deep level in their own lives?

  1. Faithfulness

A faithful man is one with real integrity. He’s someone others can look to as an example, and someone who is truly devoted to others and to Christ. Our natural self always wants to be in charge, but Spirit-controlled faithfulness is evident in the life of a man who seeks good for others and glory for God.

Question: Are there areas of hypocrisy and indifference toward others in my life, or is my life characterized by faith in Christ and faithfulness to those around me? 

  1. Gentleness

Meekness is not weakness. Gentleness is not without power, it just chooses to defer to others. It forgives others, corrects with kindness, and lives in tranquility.

Question: Do I come across to others as brash and headstrong, or am I allowing the grace of God to flow through me to others?

  1. Self-control

Our fleshly desires, Scripture tells us, are continually at odds with God’s Spirit and always want to be in charge. Self-control is literally releasing our grip on the fleshly desires, choosing instead to be controlled by the Holy Spirit. It is power focused in the right place.

Question: Are my fleshly desires controlling my life, or am I allowing the Spirit to direct me to the things that please God and serve others?

  1. Walk by the Spirit

While not a fruit of the Spirit, the final item on the checkup produces all nine qualities listed above. When we follow the Spirit’s lead instead of being led by our self-focused desires, He produces the fruit. But even when we don’t walk by the Spirit, He is the very one who convicts us that things are not in proper order in our lives. God promises that if we are willing to admit that we have been walking our own way and ask for His forgiveness and cleansing, He will empower us through His Spirit to live above ourselves and live the abundant life for which He has created us. (I John 1:5-10)

Question: Am I actively depending on the Holy Spirit to guide me in God’s ways so I don’t get wrapped up in myself? If not, am I willing to confess to God that His ways are better than mine, and that I need the Spirit’s guidance to live above the fray?

Here’s the link the checklist comes from: http://mensteppingupblog.com/2014/07/31/10-point-checklist-spiritual/ (comes from a guy)…

SONG:

Here’s an upbeat song for today, put a smile on your face, dry the tears from your eyes compliments Nicole Shermaine Fuller:
Shirley Caesar featuring Anthony Hamilton – It’s Alright, It’s Ok

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fjpkx7p_Mrg

Following two are compliments of one of my mentors, Karen Pleasant, Happy Belated Birthday: 1) Hang ON and 2) Author
GEI – Hang On Featuring Kierra Sheard:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8vJKNryrPoQ

Author by Latrice Crawford (from the album Diary of a Church Girl):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=D3WEQgq6kvY

Prayer:

Dear Lord, we delight ourselves in you as you give us the desires, even the secret ones, of our hearts. (Psalm 37:4) As we celebrate women during this month of March, thank you for the women who poured into our lives in various ways such as our ancestors who left us great legacies. Bless those women who are breaking glass ceilings and those who are breaking their backs to just feed their families. Bless the young mothers like my nieces and cousins who are raising strong women, may we be resources and support them through it all. Bless the elder mothers who may feel like they have nothing left to give or anything that anyone wants, connect them to their places and assignments of honor. Bless our men to bless us for being there through it all! Amen.

Finally, today’s Fast Wednesday is dedicated to Mark Hauser, a gallant, fierce, bold man of God. My prayers of condolences and peace are with his wife Melissa and their three children as they mourn their loss…funeral tomorrow at New Life Assembly of God, Lehigh Acres, FL,

Love, Joy and Peace, 

Debra J. Ellis

 

Reminder AND/OR for those of you just joining us either by contacting me or I personally added you: The purpose of Fast Wednesdays is to draw near to God on this specific day of the week fasting and praying in whatever manner the Holy Spirit is leading you as sisters in Christ…some have fasted from social media, coffee, or observed a traditional fast with no eating from sunrise to sunset with only liquids for the day, no deserts, etc. I know many of us for various reasons participate every week but in different manners. This has still been beneficial and the sisterhood continues to grow!

The key ingredient is that we are doing this together as sisters, of all ages, in the Lord both chronologically and spiritually in accordance to: A God-Filled Life Titus 2:3-5 “Guide older women into lives of reverence so they end up as neither gossips nor drunks, but models of goodness. By looking at them, the younger women will know how to love their husbands and children, be virtuous and pure, keep a good house, be good wives. We don’t want anyone looking down on God’s Message because of their behavior.”  Note: Please share Fast Wednesdays with your friends and/or send me names to add to the distribution list. For now, I will post in three places: email (djf52055@gmail.com), Facebook (Debra Fuller Ellis) and blog.

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