Fast Wednesdays: Week of February 10, 2016 – LOVE!

Greetings Beloved!

Today is the first day of Lent which starts with Ash Wednesday.  (Begins February 10 and ends March 24). It is a period of fasting and repentance leading up to Easter lasting 40 days for Christians. Here’s a link or two for some information if you are not familiar with the tradition or you want to go deeper in your experiences:


Popular Ideas For Lent 2016: The Most Common Fasts Include Food, Sweets, Drinks And Social Media

Here’s a link to sign up for LENT devotionals, etc:
As we approach Valentines Day this weekend, my heart turned toward the topic of Love, Of course, Valentines Day is a tradition and I celebrate it for the symbolism. Actually we should show love everyday Romans 13:8-10The Message (MSG) 8-10 Don’t run up debts, except for the huge debt of love you owe each other. When you love others, you complete what the law has been after all along. The law code—don’t sleep with another person’s spouse, don’t take someone’s life, don’t take what isn’t yours, don’t always be wanting what you don’t have, and any other “don’t” you can think of—finally adds up to this: Love other people as well as you do yourself. You can’t go wrong when you love others. When you add up everything in the law code, the sum total is love.

Proverbs 17:17 A friend loves at all times, and a brother is born for a time of adversity.

Jeremiah 17:9-10 “The heart is hopelessly dark and deceitful, a puzzle that no one can figure out. But I, God, search the heart and examine the mind. I get to the heart of the human. I get to the root of things. I treat them as they really are, not as they pretend to be.” (The Message Bible)

John 3:16 16 “For this is how God loved the world: He gave[a] his one and only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life.

Whitney Houston: Jesus Loves Me

Below is a post from Pastor Rick Warren on Love from The Daniel Plan. He teaches us that love starts with loving ourselves FIRST. Many people don’t appear to love themselves these days. So let’s start the LOVE Train by learning how to Love ourselves first, then we can love others … I’m getting on board, what about you?


The O’Jays: Love Train
Pastor Rick Warren’s radio teaching and daily devotional, Daily Hope, is offered across America and designed for your daily quiet time.  Love, learn, and LIVE the Word everyday with Daily Hope! Subscribe to the free Daily Hope Devotional or listen to today’s radio broadcast.

“We love because he first loved us.” 1 John 4:19 (NIV)

The Bible says in 1 John 4:19, “We love because [God] first loved us” (NIV). God is always first in everything. He takes the initiative. The only reason you can love God or anybody else is because God first loved you. And he showed that love by sending Jesus Christ to Earth to die for you. He showed that love by creating you. He showed that love by giving you everything you have in life. We love because God first loved us.

If you want to learn how to love other people, you’ve got to first understand and feel how much God loves you. When you feel that unconditional love, you’re going to start cutting people a lot of slack. You’re not going to be as angry as you’ve been in the past. You’re going to be more patient. You’re going to be more forgiving. You’re going to be more merciful. You’re going to show other people grace.

The reason why you see people who are judgmental, sarcastic, angry, self righteous, and always putting other people down is because they’re putting themselves down. They don’t feel good about themselves. They don’t feel loved. They don’t feel forgiven. They don’t feel grace. They feel guilty. They feel bad about themselves. And if they feel bad about themselves, they certainly don’t want you feeling good about you.

Maybe you’re one of those people. Maybe you’ve been hurt by parents or peers or partners. Maybe you’ve been abused or misused or rejected or abandoned or betrayed. You’ve got some scars on your heart.

You cannot give to others what you have not received yourself. Unlovely people are unloved people. Hurt people hurt people. If you’re filled with anger and impatience and you don’t feel loved, guess what? You’re not going to be able to love anybody else. You have to learn how much God loves you and let it heal your heart so his love can flow through you. It is impossible to love others until you really feel loved yourself.

The Bible says, “We know and rely on the love God has for us” (1 John 4:16a). Do you know the love of God? Do you rely on the love of God for you? You will have a hard time loving other people until you have God’s love coming through you.

Talk It Over

  • Would you say that you love others with the love of God? How do you show that love to others?
  • Why would understanding God’s love help you show grace to others?

What hurt from your past is keeping you from accepting God’s love and showing it to others?

Lord, you are the author and originator of love. We only know love because you are love and you loved us first. You love us specifically and sacrificially . You love us in our sin and rebellion against you. You love us despite the pain we inflict on others. You love us in our mess. It is that love – that selfless, self-sacrificing love, which allows us to love others. It is an overflow of your love for us that allows us to love other people. Lord, we ask you to make us better lovers of ourselves and one another. Would you give us the heart and love to proclaim your love to those who need to hear it? Amen…

Love, Joy and Peace, 
Debra J. Ellis

Reminder AND/OR for those of you just joining us: The purpose of Fast Wednesdays is to draw near to God on this specific day of the week fasting and praying in whatever manner the Holy Spirit is leading you as sisters (and some brothers) in Christ…some have fasted from social media, coffee, or observed a traditional fast with no eating from sunrise to sunset with only liquids for the day, no deserts, etc. I know many of us, for various reasons, participate every week but in different manners. This has still been beneficial and the blog continues to grow!

The key ingredient is that we are doing this together as sisters, of all ages, in the Lord, both chronologically and spiritually in accordance to: A God-Filled Life Titus 2:3-5 “Guide older women into lives of reverence so they end up as neither gossips nor drunks, but models of goodness. By looking at them, the younger women will know how to love their husbands and children, be virtuous and pure, keep a good house, be good wives. We don’t want anyone looking down on God’s Message because of their behavior.”  Note: Please share Fast Wednesdays with your friends and/or send me names to add to the distribution list. For now, I will post in three places: email (, Facebook (Debra Fuller Ellis) and blog in Word Press:

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